I understand that you want to get it on and be very physical due to your hormones raging out of control. “Let me explain something to you about the responsibility of having sex. “I don’t know, I guess so, maybe,” he responded. Speaking of control, are you in love with your girlfriend?” I can’t allow you to take me to a place where I am out of control. “No I am apologizing for the way I behaved regardless of the situation. “Is this a joke? You are apologizing to me because I broke the rules?” he said. He looked shocked and slowly shook his head As a parent I have to show restraint even in difficult times, because I would want you to think before you speak. I said many things I meant, but I shouldn’t have said them out loud. “First off, I wanted to apologize for the way I behaved yesterday towards you and your girlfriend. I called him into my room the next day to find out why he made this poor decision once again. I am not comfortable knowing that my son is having sex in his room.

I am more of the if-you-have-time-to-hang-out-then-you-have-time-for-work-and-school mom. I realized that I didn’t have a conversation with my son about which way he views sex and felt a conversation was in order. I am not the “cool mom.” I am not going to put condoms in a jar and allow girls to come “hang out” with him in his room.

Sexual behavior can be animalistic and reckless or done with feelings of love, longevity and respect.